Ways to Keep the Spark Alive

how to enhance intimacy

My husband and I just celebrated our anniversary about a week ago.  It’s not an official wedding anniversary however but in honor of our very first date.  We still continue to acknowledge our very first date from way back in the 90’s.  We were so young, naive and just full of lust and fondness for each other.  Somehow this date holds more meaning to me than our wedding anniversary to be honest.

I simply can’t believe how much time has passed.  I’m truly grateful each day that not only are we are still together, happy and healthy, but more importantly, our genuine love for each other is undeniable – love beyond words and boundaries.  We are a couple as well as lovers, best friends and soulmates.  I feel so fortunate in regards to our relationship especially whenever I come across people with relationship problems.

Being together for more than 20 years, I know first hand what it takes to have a strong relationship and to maintain it.  There is more than love (and lust for that matter) when it comes to a healthy relationship.  What exactly defines our happy life together you might ask?  I’m sure many of you can relate with these key values listed below:

  • Appreciation
  • Self-esteem
  • Friendship
  • Trust
  • Listening
  • Intimacy

Intimacy is one aspect of a happy relationship that every couple has to enhance as time goes on, which means keeping the spark alive.  One of my recent goals was to have more sex.  Between non-stop working and taking care of my 6 cats, I am so tired at the end of the day but the great thing is I enjoy sex now more than ever.

The more comfortable with yourself and your partner, the better sex you will have.  That’s a fact.  And it’s even more satisfying when you do extra things to really spice it up like wearing sexy lingerie or, check this out ~ my latest intimacy gadget Fiera!

how to increase sex drive

This little gem is perfect for me to get in the mood fast particularly on the days when I’m exhausted but still want to have some fun.  Basically, Fiera is a new kind of “before-play” helper to enhance your overall intimate experience.  I just love this thing.  It works like a charm.  Whoever designed this product is sure well educated about a woman’s anatomy inside and out.  Fiera recognizes the need for that extra touch to help get a woman’s mind and body in the mood.  Your body will let you know, when you are ready to go!

Intimacy is so important yet many of us often put that on the back burner and then relationships suffer as as result.  Sex should be pleasurable as well as enjoyable, not a chore.  From my own experience, two things stand out the most when it comes to intimacy ~ a healthy relationship & self-awareness (knowing your own body).  You can learn more here.

So keep the spark alive!  Do what makes you happy and enjoy them all to the max!

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

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